14 Jan 06

This just got in the e-mail.  Funny but hard truths published on Good Housekeeping’s Jan-Feb 2008 Issues. This is reality, folks and I learned it the hard way, ahaha. Not that I’m regretting anything. I hope people who are planning to tie the knot anytime soon won’t be discouraged after reading this.

One A few advices I can give couples is to always be on your toes and think of ways to innovate your relationship. Change is always good, and so are “good” surprises. (more…)

A lot of older married friends/relatives would tell me that the first few years of marriage would be the adjustment phase for any couple. Bickering, fighting and tampuhan is very much normal. But really, there are times when your SO doesn’t seem that much special or significant, anymore. Grr.

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Married life is hard for me. I can honestly say that its already taking its toll on me and we’ve just been married over a year! Its probably the extremest culture shock I’ve ever experienced in my life. I’m actually still waiting for that honeymoon stage most newlyweds gush about. And sometimes, through the difficulties, I often question myself why I got married in the first place. I said I was ready, I said love can conquer all, I said I’m already of age so I said bring it on!

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I just hope I remember most of them at the right time

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Unknown to most of the people I know, its been a month and almost 2 weeks since Pau and I decided to move out of grandma’s house. What an emotional roller coaster ride, I tell you. I’ve got so many complaints but at the same time its much better than living with relatives.[see errata below] It may be true that I enjoy the comfort of having household help, but doing things yourself gives me some kind of natural high.

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